Beforetimes
There Will Always Be This
I have a problem. I work on Sunday. I try not to do that. I’ve been trying not to work on Sundays for my entire
September 28, 2026
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The Archive
Category: Letting People Help
Letting People Help
Made a Decision
I’m let in the back door by someone who looks fifteen years older than he probably is. I walk up a flight of stairs—beige with
September 14, 2026
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Chemotherapy
Diagnosis / Treatment Update: Back to Boobs
We’re moving into the next block (tissue expander to implant swap surgery), which means it’s time to get back to boobs. Which is objectively more
June 22, 2026
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FAQ
FAQ: How Did You Tell People? (or, Leveraging Your Strengths in the Face of Trauma)
OK, so, “How did you tell people” isn’t a frequently asked question but it is one I was asked last week—and I realized it’s a
May 28, 2026
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Letting People Help
Thank You, Amy
It’s 2:30am on Friday, January 23rd and I’m slumped up against the wall in my upstairs hallway, unable to fully sit up. I’m hooked up
April 15, 2026
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